A Pot of Dirt

Sometimes people irritate me.  Sometimes they frustrate me.  Sometimes they make me angry.  But sometimes what I find to be more irritating, more frustrating, and what can make me more angry — is myself.  I get irritated with my short answers and harsh replies.  I get frustrated with myself for being too sensitive — why can’t I let things just ‘brush by’?  why can’t I let go quickly like other people can?  why do I revert to the same habits and thought patterns that I know aren’t healthy?  why do I have to think and over-think and rethink?  why can’t I express my needs — why do I convince myself they’re insignificant and unworthy of mention?  why do I bottle up the little things when I know the final straw will completely break my back?  I get angry with my shortcomings and imperfections.  And then angry that I hold myself to such an unreachable standard.  Surely I’m not the only one?

These can all be pitfalls, and Satan is well aware.  He uses them over and over to bring me down and get me to think negatively.  But God’s grace?  There’s beauty in there — in here.

I try to focus on His promises, though they can easily escape me in the moment of hardship.  I’ve learned that responses can be best left unsaid.  Many situations require taking a step back prior to doing or saying anything.  When people cause pain, God has showed me that the wisest thing to do is forgive quickly.  Those thoughts that enter my mind and tell me I’m a failure and good-for-nothing and never going to be enough — those are to be taken captive and replaced by Truth.  Thinking and over-thinking and rethinking isn’t always negative, but when it is there’s Matthew 6:25-34: let. it. go.  God always has the victory, in every situation.

There were way too many situations and thoughts that turned negative this week.  One piled on top of another and I tried to function carrying all the weight.  It never works.  There’s always a breaking point.

A pot of dirt sat [used to sit] on the top shelf in my closet.  Why?  Because that’s just where it ended up.  It’s been waiting for a plant to inhabit it, and I’ve been waiting for the space to keep it by the sunlight.  So there it sat on my shelf, next to a box of jewelry and handbags.  I pulled the box down to get a pair of earrings and down came the pot as well.  (Missing the sunlight, no doubt.)

It was a disaster.  Like a waterfall of dirt cascading down over my hanging clothes and the folded clothes on the shelves below, ending in a heap of messy darkness all over the cream carpet.  I stood there in shock for a few seconds, not sure what to think.  Then I proceeded to put in my earrings and leave the house for work.

The drive to work is long; a good 45 minutes for this job.  Which meant adequate time to think.  I had moved quickly enough to get out of the house after the spill without doing too much thinking and reacting, but once I got on auto-pilot in the car all the thoughts poured in.

It was past the “How did that happen?!” stage and to the “Really?!  Really that just happened?!” stage.  Why now?  Why this morning?  Why at all?  Did I seriously need one more thing to go wrong?  That mess is huge.  I don’t have time.  I don’t even want to clean it up.  Really?!

Then I realized what Satan was doing.  “Satan, you are not going to get me with a pot of dirt,” I said.  Then I laughed a little at the ridiculousness of it all.

And?  The rest of the day has gone well.  It’s a constant choice we have to make — are we going to allow little things to build up and lead to an explosion?  Or are we going to forgive, even ourselves, and refuse to allow Satan to control our thoughts and actions?  He’s a loser.  He’s already lost.  He can go right to Hell, thank You very much.

Let’s choose Jesus.  Let’s choose joy and thanksgiving and peace.  Let’s choose to breathe in and let go when frustrations and irritations come, to look for the love that Jesus has for us and to embrace it — embrace Him.  He is so much sweeter.

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2 thoughts on “A Pot of Dirt

  1. Amy
    I too have had unexpected calamities happen like your pot of dirt and they would irritate me to the point of anger. But, then one day when my opened brief case fell to the floor and everything fell out, I was in a business situation where it would have been un-cool to get frustrated. I decided to humor myself and I said, to all those who where wondering what I was about to say, “Well, that’s not what I had in mind” Everyone laughed and it made me feel so much better than getting frustrated. So, we all have our little calamities, but humor makes mine tolerable. I have to admit, I chuckled when I read the part where the dirt fell all over the closet
    Love you LOTS,
    Bumpa

  2. Good Morning, I see your situation from an entirely different perspective. Perhaps it was Gods way of protecting you from an accident that happened that morning. He held you up just long enough, when the pot of dirt fell, that you missed being hurt on your way to work, or involved in something sad. (I love that container of dirt……(:`) and the fact that you were taken care of that morning. Love you so much, Amy “Mum”

    NOW, GO CLEAN YOUR ROOM………………………..!!!

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